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Do you have "control issues"?

The good news is that being a "controller" is a
symptom of being intelligent, creative, and
passionate... AND duped into believing the Big Lie
of our culture: *conditionality*

The Big Lie is that you can't be happy or feel worthy
except under certain conditions. If you've bought
into it, then naturally you will use your personal
strengths to try and control those conditions.

For example, if you believe your children have to
behave a certain way in order for you to feel good
(about them or about yourself), then of course you
will try to control their behavior.

Once you realize the purpose of the Big Lie -- to
control *you* -- you'll stop believing it.

Practicing the Art of Unconditionality* dissolves the
Big Lie (and the "need" to control conditions) by
affirming the Ultimate Truth: that you have the
power to focus your mind in ways that feel good...
under *any* conditions.

Try it!

http://dailygroove.net/big-lie

* See also: What Is 'Unconditionality'? at
www.scottnoelle.com/parenting/unconditional.htm


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